the film was soso~
don’t see the link between the title and the film itself~
maybe "waiting in love" or "waiting for marriage" would be more appropriate~
however,on hindsight,it does provoke some thoughts~
most of us are, almost always, waiting for love~
waiting for him to call you after your first date~
waiting for him to just look at you or give you a kiss~
waiting for the guy or gal you love to love you in return~
waining for him to froget about her in order to accept you~
waiting for your loved one to pop the most important question~
waiting for yourself to stop loving someone who’s hurt you so much~
waiting for the one who’s fell out of love to fall in love with you once again~
waiting for the right moment to break up with the one you once loved~
waiting for the heartache to go away so that you can love again~
waiting for the final moment he says the words you can’t say~
waiting for the withered love to have a natural death~
waiting for the love to materialise into marriage~
waiting for the understanding of true love~
waiting for the right person right time…
however
love doesn’t wait~
no, it never does~
it comes way too fast~
hits you like a summer storm~
rips your heart out and changes it~
then, it slips away before you realize~
there’s no wait for love~
there’s no way to love~
love, love is the way…
my fav love poem written in a foreign language~
Я вас любил…/I loved you once…
written by pushkin
Я вас любил: любовь еще, быть может В душе моей угасла не совсем; Но пусть она вас больше не тревожит; Я не хочу печалить вас ничем. Я вас любил безмолвно, безнадежно, То робостью, то ревностью томим; Я вас любил так искренно, так нежно, Как дай вам бог любимой быть другим. |
I loved you once: perhaps that love has yet To die down thoroughly within my soul; But let it not dismay you any longer; I have no wish to cause you any sorrow. I loved you wordlessly, without a hope, By shyness tortured, or by jealousy. I loved you with such tenderness and candor And pray God grants you to be loved that way again. |
鼻子酸了。。
I\’m touched by the poem…
我觉得你写的东东比那首诗要好,真的。
尤其不喜欢最后那句"I loved you with such tenderness and candor/And pray God grants you to be loved that way again."也曾体会过这种谦卑无望的爱情,但我想任何人都无权决定所爱的人需要得到何种的爱,尤其不必对自己痛苦无望的爱情敝帚自珍,还祈祷别人能再次得到相同的爱。
昨天刚好看到一个朋友在写什么是爱的主题blog,这两天一直脑袋里思考love is…?的问题,当然还是非常想不清楚。我以为我是幸福的,虽然这新近拥有的幸福,也并不能确保一个永远如一的未来,但此刻的小幸福,却比努力的思考和追求来得自然和简单。
maybe love is a naughty deer: she can pop by you at her wish; but u can never catch her when she runs away…
我们都会幸福的。
T_T写的太好了..
haha, agree… gotta catch it and hold on to it when it comes… if not, it will slip away…
u know sometimes i just want to yell at myself, stop waiting !
Being a gal should not stop you fr making the 1st move!
love your candid thoughts more:)
哈哈,我觉得你应该把你揽taxi的冲劲和勇气apply到love中去。
waiting for yourself to stop loving someone who\’s hurt you so much亲爱的,你太赞了。
诗歌内容美形式也美。支持
Beautiful!
Hee.. i link u from my blog
我也很喜欢这首诗,但看了样子的comment似乎有了一些新的领悟。确实,诗里所讲的爱情其实并不值得鼓励,就是因为类似的诗句和歌(如死了都要爱这样的)才会让我们时常在痛苦无望的爱情里面越陷越深。Indeed, ur poem is better~~ and i love u yangyang~~
=)多谢大家支持~偶会再接再厉的~
样子说的有道理,我们确实没有资格为别人做考虑打算。。。
jyt:i love you too dear sis =)
oh look at wat i missed!!
i adore your lovely poem!!!~~